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Celebration
A gentle breeze, a whispered plea,“Grow, grow, grow,” you say to me.A tiny seed, in fertile ground,A future bright, all around. With sun and rain, a patient hand,I heed your call, across the land.From humble root to reaching high,I touch the sky, as seasons fly. So whisper on, that soft command,To grow, grow, grow, hand in hand.For in this growth, a beauty lies,Reflected in my open eyes “Every Blade of Grass Has Its Angel that Read More

Compassion or Aggression
“Compassion is not hereditable. It can and therefore must be taught. The teaching of compassion, the exercise of the soul, will open the heart. And then nothing will be impossible.” Rabbi Awraham Soetendorp “Compassion is a organizing principle for business leaders, government leaders, arts and culture, humanitarians – you need a working principle, especially when the world is colliding into each other every day”. Salman Ahmad “In a world where force is too often the Read More

Denial
“Disinformation is more than just lying: it’s the denial and twisting of reality in order to present some desired image to the rest of the world.” Will Hurd, an American politician, former CIA officer, and Texas representative in the US House. “Refusal to believe until proof is given is a rational position; denial of all outside of our own limited experience is absurd.” Annie Besant, an English socialist, theosophist, freemason, women’s rights and Home Read More

It’s the Narrative, Stupid
J. B. Pritzer, Governor of Illinois, struck the right tone in his recent address in New Hampshire: “Standing for the idea that the government doesn’t have the right to kidnap you without due process is arguably the MOST EFFECTIVE CAMPAIGN SLOGAN IN HISTORY,” “Today, it’s an immigrant with a tattoo. Tomorrow, it’s a citizen whose Facebook post annoys Trump.” Pritzer may be right. I’m glad he is speaking out, AND we need stronger narratives Read More

Life A to Z: Perspectives and Possibilities
When I turned 70, my daughter Rebecca, said, “Dad, you should stop writing books and start a blog.” Since, I highly value her perspective, I replied, “Good idea.” Now, as I have turned 80, I can look back on the 399 essays I posted on this blog during that decade and review the topics addressed. I decided to organize all of them into an accessible format and to use the alphabet as the organizing construct, Read More

Goals, Guideposts, and Gratitude
In a recent NYT article, Roger Rosenblatt, age 85, shared his 10 secrets for growing old happily. Here’s his list with my brief interpretations. Nobody’s thinking about you. Get over yourself. Make young friends. Connect with people who have a fresh perspective and who are thinking more about living than dying. Try to see fewer than five doctors. Don’t let your life revolve around Dr. visits. Get a dog. Find a source of unconditional positive Read More

Acknowledgement
“You can’t heal what you don’t acknowledge.” Jack Cornfield “When an individual is protesting society’s refusal to acknowledge his dignity as a human being, his very act of protest confers dignity on him.” Bayard Rustin, organizer of 1963 March on Washington for Civil Rights “A man is never more truthful than when he acknowledges himself a liar.” Mark Twain “The defining characteristic of love is specificity. To be seen accurately in all our freakish particularity Read More

Capacity Building
“Interdependence is no longer our choice. It’s our condition. Our only choice is whether we forge healthy interdependencies and rise together or maintain unhealthy interdependencies and fall together.” Dov Siedman “Abundance is a determination to align our collective genius with the needs of both the planet and each other.” Ezra Klein I don’t know about you, but I’m having a hard time finding an abundance of hope for our planet in this blizzard of Read More

Simplifying Complexity
“A little simplification would be the first step toward rational living.” Eleanor Roosevelt “Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple.” Steve Jobs “The art of simplicity is a puzzle of complexity.” Douglas Horton It’s always good to know who and what you are dealing with when you try to create a response to a complex problem. I’ve found that asking questions helps Read More

Ancient Wisdom for the Current Chaos
“In the sky, it unfolded in its ancient way, untouched by the storms gathering on a wounded planet.” Margaret Renkl I just realized that the last 10 posts I have written have been about Trump – the wounds he has inflicted on the planet and the existential crisis he has caused. I was shocked and dismayed. He is the last person I want to be writing about even if he does provide perfect fodder Read More

Cultural Calibration
Finally! When I landed on cultural calibration as a post-worthy topic, I googled it to see how many articles and books had already been written on the subject. None! Frankly, I was a bit shocked because, to me, it may be one of the most important constructs in organizational change. If you don’t understand the culture in which a change is being implemented, the chances for success are very low. Think Vietnam. Think Iraq. Read More

Not a Card Game
“The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don’t do anything about it.” Albert Einstein “I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.” Martin Luther King, Jr. I loved playing cards when I was growing up. I have fond memories of playing Read More
Autocratic Alliances
“What happened in the Oval Office on Friday, February 28 — the obviously planned ambush of President Volodymyr Zelensky of Ukraine by President Trump and Vice President JD Vance — was something that had never happened in the nearly 250-year history of this country: In a major war in Europe, our president clearly sided with the aggressor, the dictator and the invader against the democrat, the freedom fighter and the invaded.” Thomas Friedman As I Read More
Trump Takes a Mulligan
President Donald J. Trump steps up to the first tee. Surrounded by his entourage of cheerleaders and cops, He takes a mighty swing. The ball slices into the deep woods. “I’ll take a mulligan,” he mutters. He tees up his second try and duck hooks it into the rough. After groaning a bit, he plops into his golf cart for his next shot(s). On his way, an assistant finds the ball, cleans it, and Read More
Irrational Rationality
“Being irrational and out of control is what happens in real life. Not cautiously choreographing your anger or your emotions, losing yourself in them is what happens in real life.” —Margot Robbie “Poetry involves the mysteries of the irrational perceived through rational words.” —Vladimir Nabokov This week I had the pleasure of listening to a lecture on the historical roots and underlying ideas of Unitarian Universalism with my daughter, who is pursuing a degree in Read More
Standards and Systems
“We’ve become, now, an oligarchy instead of a democracy. I think that’s been the worst damage to the basic moral and ethical standards to the American political system that I’ve ever seen in my life.” Jimmy Carter “States are not moral agents, people are, and can impose moral standards on powerful institutions.” Noam Chomsky “Right action tends to be defined in terms of general individual rights and standards that have been critically examined and agreed Read More
Radiance
I’ve been thinking about what it takes to bring a little light to an increasingly dark world. Fires, floods, fertility flops, and famines have become more frequent and more severe. The world seems to be shifting to the right fueled by populist rage based on false information. These rapidly changing trends are personal. We have friends whose house burned to the ground in California. They had just moved in two weeks ago and lost everything. Read More
Entertainment or Expertise
Today, less than half of U.S. adults read even just one book per year.
Is Chris Hayes right that our attention has become the focus of corporate manipulation?
If all our conscious thoughts are replaced by the buzz of beeps, notifications, and texts, how can we be more than just “bystanders to our minds”?
When Winning is Losing
Ah, I thought I had finally found a topic on which several books had not already been written. Wrong again. When I searched Amazon for books entitled “When Winning is Losing”, several popped up. But surely, I thought, Google Gemini won’t be able to generate any ideas on this topic! Bingo. In one second it came up with several examples. Oh well, I consoled myself, at least I can still provide my unique view on Read More
Grief and Grievance
I’m not sure I can turn the grief I may feel on November 6 into a garden of compassion, as Rumi suggests. Keeping my heart open no matter what happens might be a challenge too great for me to handle to continue my search for love and wisdom. To prepare for the possibility of needing to confront that challenge, I thought it might be helpful to explore the reasons behind the grief I might feel…
Change and Choice
The evolution and acceleration of AI technologies has convinced me that we no longer have a choice about whether or not we change. The only question is, will we ride the waves of change to better lives, or will we drown in them by not asking the right questions or making the choices that change demands?
I will show how AI can help us take all those steps more efficiently and effectively.
The Material and the Ethereal
“In a way, you are poetry material; You are fully of cloudy subtleties I am willing to spend a lifetime figuring out. Words burst in your essence and you carry their dust in the pores of your ethereal individuality.” —Franz Kafka “The spirit-world around this senseFloats like an atmosphere, and everywhereWafts through these earthly mists and vapors denseA vital breath of ethereal air” —Henry Wadsworth Longfellow “Music is the ethereal connection between this world and the Read More
The Dangers of Demonization
“People aren’t terrible, systems are.” —Zadie Smith
I’ve been thinking deeply about the dangers of demonization.
Demonization is an easy means of simplifying the complexities of human behavior by reducing individuals or groups to caricatures of pure evil.
What kinds of situations and assumptions lead to this way of thinking, and what are the consequence?