Blog Posts — Page 8
The Olympics of Culture Change
I must admit that I became somewhat obsessed with the Paris Olympics over its two week run. As I was watching the closing ceremonies, I was struck by the elegance and eloquence of the final speakers who were about to peacefully transfer the responsibilities for the 2028 Olympics to the United States. In a beautifully crafted and moving speech, Tony Estanquet, the Paris 24 President, led off: “With the first medals, a wave started building. Read More
Individual vs. Cultural
To get at the root cause of any problem, a helpful question to ask is, “is this problem primarily caused by an individual or is it the result of the culture in which the problem is occurring?” Answering that question fairly and accurately usually leads to a clearer perspective on the direction required to solve the problem. Perspective is important. During my morning meditation, I always give thanks for the First Light that occurred 14 Read More
Why We are Stuck in the Muck
It seems to me that the conditions for change have become much more challenging in the last 20 years.
Every day brings new stories of extremism growing, disinformation proliferating, inequality widening, and fear simmering. In the midst of growing trends and shrinking standards, the question is:
How do we get ourselves out of this muck?
Meaningless Minutes or Magical Moments
“I have realized that the past and future are real illusions, that they exist in the present, which is what there is and all there is.” —Alan Watts “I don’t have to chase extraordinary moments to find happiness – it’s right in front of me if I’m paying attention and practicing gratitude.” —Brene Brown “Life isn’t a matter of milestones, but of moments.” —Rose Kennedy “If you abandon the present moment, you cannot live the Read More
The Strength to Carry On
Released almost 50 years ago, in the aftermath of the American War in Vietnam, this song by Kansas still captures our experience today. Carry on my wayward son There’ll be peace when you are done Lay your weary head to rest Don’t you cry no more Once I rose above the noise and confusion Just to get a glimpse of this illusion I was soaring ever higher But I flew too high Though Read More
Ruthless, Relentless, and Remorseless
“A dictator may hereafter arise, who laying hold of popular disquietudes, may collect together the desperate and the discontented, and by assuming to themselves the powers of government, may sweep away the liberties of the continent like a deluge.” Thomas Paine, 1776 “If we are to have another contest of our national existence, I predict that the dividing line will not be Mason and Dixon’s but between patriotism and intelligence on the one side, and Read More
Knowledge, Narrative and Nuance
“To know what you know and what you do not know, that is true knowledge.” Confucius “There is no longer any such thing as fiction or nonfiction; there’s only narrative. E.L Doctorow “I like moral judgment to emerge from the reader. We are being sold a very simplistic morality by our leaders at a time when nuance and understanding are at a premium.” Hari Kunzru As a way to recover from the nightmare Read More
Choices and Change – The “Ize” through which we see the world
I’ve been thinking about what it takes to create the conditions for lasting change. For example, many countries around the world have taken on the challenge of promoting freedom, equality, liberty, and justice. While there have been signs of progress in different places at different points in time, it sure seems to me that we have been losing ground lately. As I was reading Doris Kearns Goodwin’s new book, An Unfinished Love Story, it struck Read More
Soft, Slow and Simple
“Water is fluid, soft, and yielding. But water will wear away rock, which is rigid and cannot yield. As a rule, whatever is fluid, soft, and yielding will overcome whatever is rigid and hard. This is another paradox: what is soft is strong.” Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching “The gentle overcomes the rigid. The slow overcomes the fast. The weak overcomes the strong. Everyone knows that the yielding overcomes the stiff, and the soft overcomes Read More
Sensational Experiences
“The great art of life is sensation, to feel that we exist, even in pain.” Lord Byron “At night, when the sky is full of stars and the sea is still, you get the wonderful sensation that you are floating in space.” Natalie Wood I’ve been sitting on the idea of beginning each day with a series of sensational experiences for about a year, struggling with how to turn the idea into a post. Read More
Book Group Ecosystems
Forty years ago, 7 couples in Basking Ridge, New Jersey, decided to start a book group. The first book we chose was 1984 by George Orwell, because it happened to be the year we began. The group is still meeting. Aging, but still reading and discussing. We met once a month for 34 years until deaths and relocations caused a pause. At the end of each meeting, the couple designated to host the next group Read More
Resist Much, Obey Little
For my 75th birthday, a friend gave me a T-Shirt with a quote on the front by Walt Whitman: “Resist Much, Obey Little.” I get more comments on that T-shirt than any other I regularly wear. And I wear a lot of T-shirts. Just the other day, another friend took a picture of my well-worn sartorial statement, and said she was going to order one just like it. The quote “Resist much, obey little” appears Read More



