Blog Posts — Page 9
Knowledge, Narrative and Nuance
“To know what you know and what you do not know, that is true knowledge.” Confucius “There is no longer any such thing as fiction or nonfiction; there’s only narrative. E.L Doctorow “I like moral judgment to emerge from the reader. We are being sold a very simplistic morality by our leaders at a time when nuance and understanding are at a premium.” Hari Kunzru As a way to recover from the nightmare Read More
Choices and Change – The “Ize” through which we see the world
I’ve been thinking about what it takes to create the conditions for lasting change. For example, many countries around the world have taken on the challenge of promoting freedom, equality, liberty, and justice. While there have been signs of progress in different places at different points in time, it sure seems to me that we have been losing ground lately. As I was reading Doris Kearns Goodwin’s new book, An Unfinished Love Story, it struck Read More
Soft, Slow and Simple
“Water is fluid, soft, and yielding. But water will wear away rock, which is rigid and cannot yield. As a rule, whatever is fluid, soft, and yielding will overcome whatever is rigid and hard. This is another paradox: what is soft is strong.” Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching “The gentle overcomes the rigid. The slow overcomes the fast. The weak overcomes the strong. Everyone knows that the yielding overcomes the stiff, and the soft overcomes Read More
Sensational Experiences
“The great art of life is sensation, to feel that we exist, even in pain.” Lord Byron “At night, when the sky is full of stars and the sea is still, you get the wonderful sensation that you are floating in space.” Natalie Wood I’ve been sitting on the idea of beginning each day with a series of sensational experiences for about a year, struggling with how to turn the idea into a post. Read More
Book Group Ecosystems
Forty years ago, 7 couples in Basking Ridge, New Jersey, decided to start a book group. The first book we chose was 1984 by George Orwell, because it happened to be the year we began. The group is still meeting. Aging, but still reading and discussing. We met once a month for 34 years until deaths and relocations caused a pause. At the end of each meeting, the couple designated to host the next group Read More
Resist Much, Obey Little
For my 75th birthday, a friend gave me a T-Shirt with a quote on the front by Walt Whitman: “Resist Much, Obey Little.” I get more comments on that T-shirt than any other I regularly wear. And I wear a lot of T-shirts. Just the other day, another friend took a picture of my well-worn sartorial statement, and said she was going to order one just like it. The quote “Resist much, obey little” appears Read More
Lessons in Peace and Conflict Resolution
I was recently browsing through some files and stumbled across a piece I had written in April 2013, before I started writing this blog. It was a reflection about a trip I had taken to the Holy Land to deepen my understanding of Jewish history, to get a better understanding of the conflict brewing there, and to discover some potential paths to peace. I thought I would share it here because it still seems relevant. Read More
Greatest HITs of All Times
What if there was a magic pill that filled you with hope, fueled your innovative juices, and enabled you to trust the people and organizations that impact your life? Sadly, there’s no magic pill, but this possibility is a choice you can make. In this post, I want to suggest that you have the power to create norms of your own choosing…
Emphatic or Empathetic
The underlying cause of many of our overlaying issues is our culturally reinforced tendency to be more emphatic than empathic. In this post, I explore this idea more deeply through asking some key questions.
Preserve AND Protect
Even though there are dozens of columns describing the recent protests through different sets of lenses, I decided to share my perspective because I was involved in the seeds of this movement 56 years ago in Vietnam.
Purpose, Principles, and Priorities
America was founded with the purpose of creating liberty and justice for all. Millions of people around the country pledge their allegiance to that purpose in schools, athletic events, and government meetings still today. And yet, based on budget allocations, the US is essentially an insurance company with a military. What does that say about our purpose?
Identity AND Infinity
On April 8, 2024, the day of the Great Eclipse, people around the world experienced the differential effects of identity and infinity. Children, adults, republicans, democrats, blacks, browns, and whites all experienced the magical, mystical and mysterious possibilities in our ever-expanding universe. This is what happens when infinity dominates.